
She is trying her best not to swear because it isn't ladylike, and you are trying your best to impress her with some dumb-ass story that makes you sound smarter than you really are.
#Keep it shrimple stupid professional
It's a fancy restaurant and both of you are trying to act as proper and as professional as you can. You dress up like you're going to the Grammy awards, and she is dressed up as well. Finally you decide to go out to eat, so you make dinner reservations at some fancy restaurant. Scenario #1 – You text back and forth 300 times about what you want to do for a date, what time you'll meet, and where she would like to go. I'm going to give you two different scenarios and I want you to pick out the date that you think would sound like more fun, with more of a chance of gaining her affection and increasing her comfort level with you. Most guys are so concerned about picking a date the girl will like, dressing to the 9's, and trying to impress her with some elaborate night on the town, that the fucking date isn't even fun! It's like you have to jump through hell and high water just to get to the point of spending time together and getting to know each other. Think about how many people over-complicate getting to know someone now. Keeping things simple also plays a significant role when it comes to dating. It's far better to be consistent with that rather than diet for 2 days and then go to McDonald's and eat 3,000 calories (unless you're gaining size and new to weights). If you can realistically see yourself eating 3 scrambled eggs with toast for breakfast, a protein drink and an apple for lunch, and a chicken breast with a cup of rice for dinner, then that is what you need to do until you're ready to take on more. Sometimes simplifying the workout is the answer you need to continue to make progress! This also plays into your diet as well. It's better to be consistent with those 3 sets on a regular basis than to ignore your abs. If you don't like training your abs, but can deal with 3 sets of sit-ups, then keep it at 3 sets of sit-ups every time you're in the gym.


Fuck all that, just hit the stupid needle and go train already! When it comes to your workouts, do a workout that is realistic and consistent. To him, it has to be the perfect cycle with the perfect compounds and the perfect time to start. Rather than just getting a couple things and diving into a cycle and training his ass off, he is making it out to be rocket science. He isn't being indecisive because he is not knowledgeable about gear, he is being indecisive because he is placing too much emphasis on it. I can't tell you how many times I hear about some guy who wants to run a cycle, and he is racking his brain over what he wants to take. We over complicate the ever-loving shit out of everything from relationships, to jobs, to money, to workouts! Somewhere along the way we have lost some of that ability to have fun, and we get more hesitant to start anything or follow through with it. It's easy to let things seem overwhelming, take too long to get started, and too long to get finished. Fuck, nowadays if someone doesn't drop $1000 on a charter boat tour, they just assume stay at home.Īs we get older we lose some of that touch. It was never a big ordeal where I needed to drop a bunch of money just to go fishing. I lived a few blocks away from a dam and it seemed like I went there at least a few times a week in the summer to fish. Fishing was also a favorite pastime of mine. It was never this big ordeal where we ordered some expensive parts or had to send something to a fabrication shop, we just built the damn things and had a good time with them. We used to also build these go-karts out of old wood and scrap metal that cost practically nothing to make. It was a terrific afternoon and a time when we made things happen on very little. We stopped at a gas station in a small town and bought a couple sodas and a bag of chips for lunch. If I got cold then I'd just have to peddle faster to warm up. I think I had about $5 on me, no helmet, no cell phone (cell phones weren't around yet) and nothing but a T-shirt and jeans.

It was about 35 miles around the lake, and there were some hills where we probably hit over 40 mph. One of my most memorable times as a 13 year old boy was riding my bike around the lake with one of my friends on an unseasonably warm day in February. We NEVER questioned how far it was or what type of work we'd have to put in to get there, we just started peddling. Have you ever noticed that when you were a kid nothing seemed difficult to get started? If I wanted to get someplace on my bike then I just rode there with my friends. So many people have trouble putting one foot in front of the other and just jumping into something to get started. People want to over complicate everything nowadays.
